Blog Comments and the Lack of Civility
A word to those wishing to comment:
I just deleted another snarky, 'anonymous' comment that was left sometime back. To roughly paraphrase, the comment said: "You're a total blithering idiot. Somewhere but not here there is a village that needs you." It went into more sarcastic detail. The language used wasn't profane, but it was mean spirited, condescending, and generally disrespectful. And like practically all the comments that people leave, it was signed 'Anonymous.'
Here's where I stand on comments. I WILL delete any comment that I don't feel adds something to the thoughts expressed here. I don't expect commenters to always agree with me; in fact I hope they don't. I had a debating scholarship when I was in college, and I love to debate. But debate is done by rebutting the points made by your opponent, and making your own points--not by trying to belittle or disrespect the person you are debating with. The essence of debate is overcoming another's points with your own better thought out, more logical, and better presented points.
Comments left on this blog need to address the issues I have raised, or raise new issues relevant to the discussion. Also, comments must be civil in both language and tone. Otherwise, the commenter is wasting key strokes and can save themselves the trouble.
Will I EVER post a comment here from someone who is 'anonymous?' The answer is yes, I will, and I have provided the poster had something of substance to say and is civil in their manner of saying it.
But I am amazed at how uncivil, disrespectful, sarcastic, snarky, and downright hateful people get under the cover of being 'anonymous.' It isn't just this blog; check out the posts against articles on any newspaper's web site and you will see the same kind of disrespectful incivility in a huge number of comments that people leave.
If anyone reading anything here this feels compelled to tell me that how stupid my opinion is, and/or that I am a fool for daring to expressing it, and/or that my mother drove a beer truck, or other disrespectful or hateful things, you should know this:
You will impress me a lot more--and come a lot nearer having your comment see the light of day instead of being lost forever in my bit-bucket--if you sign your real name.
Labels: blog comments, incivility





